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Before starting construction |
MiraLago, means Look… A Lake!
Having just returned from spending time in the US to see family and friends, I would normally write about
all the new sights we saw along the way.
However, I feel compelled to write a more reflective post today. This is sort
of a historical account of MiraLago. I have mentioned before that I name my
houses, so when Dave and I built a house on Lake Travis, the name MiraLago fit perfectly.
The building of MiraLago came at a time when Dave and I were working to
restore a bumpy phase in our marriage. This
house was a commitment of devotion, hard work, and a future together. I admit
this was one of the most challenging tasks I have ever attempted and something I
look back on with great pride. We were
enchanted with the neighborhood of Travis Landing, just west of Austin, after
spending many weekends with friends who lived there. We found an empty lot that looked
intriguing. To ensure that it had a view
of the lake, Dave took long sections of PVC pipe and duct-taped a video camera
to the end of it. Do I need to remind
you how big a video camera was back in 1993?
He managed to stand the pipe up and spin it around quickly enough to
convince us there was a view of the lake.
We were hooked!
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Dave and Reese putting in the front door |
So – once we had our front door and a set of plans – we were ready to start! The task of building a house from scratch was overwhelming for me. Dave convinced me to focus on one step at a time, not the big picture.
When I say we “built” this house – I do not mean we sat in an airconditioned office making paint color, flooring, and cabinet choices.
Not hardly! This was an “everybody has their own tool belt and let’s get sweaty” kind of project. I was soon driving nails, sawing lumber, pulling electrical wires (until my hands went numb), laying Saltillo tiles, and helping mill our own cabinets and trim. We spent countless hours walking through the house deciding where to put light switches. We hung ceiling fans, grouted all the bathroom tiles, cut and fit Pergo flooring, and sanded any piece of wood that didn’t move fast enough to get out of the way.

We spent lots of time in the lake.
I even trained for the swimming portion of the Danskin triathlon in that
lake. Our dog, Fonagin, never tired of
retrieving balls and digging up rocks in the water.
We spent lots of time on the lake. Early on, we attempted to restore a large sailboat. We eventually gave that project to someone else, and Dave took up sailing a smaller vessel called a Dolphin.
Danny took boating lessons through the PB&J Club at the Austin
Yacht Club, just down the street. I took a sailing lesson as well but never
quite mastered the skills to be a competent sailor.
We also spent lots of time just
sitting near the lake. We had quite a few parties in that park over the
years. We also spent loads of time on a
neighbor’s dock, soaking up the sunshine and friendship.
I was continuously fascinated by the water level fluctuations. Lake Travis is one of two reservoir lakes in the Texas Highland Lakes chain. It never ceased to amaze me to see how quickly the lake would fill up during the rainy times and how quickly it would dry up during the droughts.
As time marched on, and Danny eventually graduated from high school, and Austin traffic got worse, I grew weary of the drive back and forth into town. My job, a lot of my doctors, my synagogue – were all “in town”. In 2011, we made a huge decision to move back into Austin proper.
Since such a big part of
my life was connected to MiraLago, I could not bring myself to sell it. So, we decided to rent it.
Our realtor found a wonderful
couple, Maria and Alberto. When we met
them, we instantly liked their easy-going manner and positive nature. They were sensitive to my emotional state of
moving out of the house we had built and they promised to take good care of it –
which they absolutely did! I know that
they loved living there, as they stayed for ten years.
Last week we received the horrific
news that both Maria and Alberto had drowned in the lake. We are still trying to process how this
happened. I know that water is a
powerful force, and in retrospect, I acknowledge how I have failed to be
adequately respectful of it. No matter
how good a swimmer we may be, the danger of drowning should never, ever be taken
lightly. When tragedy hits us personally, we certainly see things differently.
This tragic event has left a void in our lives that is hard to comprehend. Our hearts and prayers are with the surviving family and friends, as we all try to sort through this incredibly hard
time.
It is a vivid reminder to cherish
our time on this planet. This certainly
feels like a chapter of my life is closing. I am reminded that nothing stays the same – life
is constantly changing. And we must
adapt and change with whatever lands in our path. Every decision we make propels us towards
some unknown destiny.
Hug your loved ones. Make the phone call you have been putting
off. Speak kindly to others – we never
know what struggles other people are facing.
More pictures below of many of the people who helped us build MiraLago! We thank you with all our heart! Apologies to those I did not get pictures of.
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My mom, Ruth and friend Arlen |
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High school friend Angie S. |
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David's Dad Bill and cousin Stephanie |
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Cousin Craig L. |
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long-time friend Dani L. |
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former neighbor Jeff D. |
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Bryant F. and David |
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long-time friend Lisa L and son Logan with Danny in wheelbarrow |
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Danny and cousin Logan L. |
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Danny on the bobcat! |
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workshop in the garage |
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refinished clawfoot tub |
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MiraLago, nearing completion |
Hey Stephanie! Thanks for sharing this chapter of your life. I never knew you guys had a house near Lake Travis and how cool that y'all built it yourselves. What wonderful memories you guys made and have to look back on fondly. I'm so sorry about your friends and pray for their family and friends. Hope you and David are doing well and enjoying your home in Canada.
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Deletemuch for the kind comments Lisa.
David and I are doing well and really settling in comfortably in Montreal.
Hugs to you and your family! Stay safe.
Such a beautifully poignant testament to a meaningful time in your life, and to Maria and Alberto who shared in your love of your home. Condolences to their family and loved ones, and to you and David as you process the layers of loss. May they Rest in Peace 💜
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DeleteHey Jennifer! Thank you for reaching out (and letting me know who posted this!). It's been a rough week, but talking and writing helps. Hugs!
DeleteHey Stephanie was a wonderful and terrible story at the same time. Beautiful house. It must have been hard to leave it. I am so sorry to hear about your tenants - Suzy
ReplyDeleteThanks Suzy! I'm glad I chose to share this - thanks for the comments. Hugs to you!
DeleteI was lost in my stroll down memory lane with you, recalling our recent conversation about your joy in having Maria and Alberto as your tenants and the peace of mind they provided you, and then gasped when I read the news. I am so sorry to hear about them and for your loss of family. They have guarded your home and so much of your spirit for so long, they have been related to you from a distance. Please let me know if I can help with anything. Just a short ways away...
ReplyDeleteThanks for reaching out and for offering to help. Writing and remembering has been very cathartic for me. Hugs to you and Doug!
DeleteMy first time to read a blog and I loved it! You should definitely write a book! So wonderful to see you today on Zoom! Looking forward to seeing you in April ❤️
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